I was in a relationship for a year last year and the whole time the guy i was dating was fooling around with other people and i would find texts and i would feel heart broken who here hasnt had that problem finding texts on your partners phone...The thing i need to know is the guy im with now is having to pay for what my ex did because i have a theory that nearly every guy out there cheats i raise my hand up and admitt i too have done the dirty...and i aint talking anal. I never left the ex the whole time i knew i was scared of losing the guy i loved so i cheated and done whatever he did so i was as bad as him,
So why do we cheat? is it because we are all afraid of getting hurt and want to be equally as bad or are we as we all fear addicted to the feeling of not getting bored. Who could stick to the same food everyday sometimes if you switch from one to the other it makes you appriciate the other more. I love sex i wont deny it the feeling of making someone naked and letting all that safety of clothing go being litterally laid bare warts ( yuk!) and all.
So What about all you Lot out there have you been cheated on and cheated and why did you do it?
STiCKs13
I'm not sure I've been cheated on properly and I've never cheated but if I did do it, I'd do it for one of several reasons:
1) Not wanting to hurt my partner but still wanting to be with someone else
2) Wanting to end the relationship but not coming clean, so going off with someone instead
3) Wanting to satisfy everyone
4) Variety
I think that cheating is too overplayed nowadays though, cause yeah, it hurts like hell but people are only human and they can't help feelings, especially if they have trouble with resistance!
I don't believe in cheating, I'm not condoning it, but I'm just saying, it's just lust kicking in and sometimes that honestly can't be helped.
It's like being gay, right? It's unavoidable if you are, it may be frowned upon by people close to you but you honestly can't help it!